After an infantтАЩs early babbling stage, many parents expect their babyтАЩs first word to be a heart-melting тАЬMa-maтАЭ or тАЬDa-da.тАЭ So Shelby Tripp, while pleased her twins Aaliyah and Ariston started speaking, was surprised when, instead, they started calling each other тАЬDuggots.тАЭ
тАЬAround age 1, theyтАЩd developed their own way of talking,тАЭ says Tripp, of Volcano, Hawaii. тАЬAaliyah first started calling Ari тАШDuggots,тАЩ then Ari picked it up.тАЭ They also chattered in rapid-fire syllables like тАЬdadadada,тАЭ тАЬtatatatatat,тАЭ and тАЬtookatookatooka,тАЭ using different tones, inflections, and other emphases.
Twin speak, also known as cryptophasia, can baffle parents as their twins or other multiples seem to chatter in speech no one else understands.┬а But there’s no evidence that theyтАЩre really creating a unique language, even if it sounds that way.
тАЬLanguage, by definition, is a rule-governed behavior,тАЭ says Diane Paul, PhD. SheтАЩs the senior director of clinical issues in speech-language pathology at the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association (ASHA) in Rockville, MD. тАЬItтАЩs defined as the comprehension and use of a spoken, written, and/or communication symbol system.тАЭ
The term тАЬtwin language,тАЭ she says, is a theory based on the idea that siblings born together develop a language thatтАЩs unique to them and distinct from the language spoken in their home. It certainly seemed so to Tripp, especially when she tried to join in. тАЬMy husband and I would try to copy them, and the babies would snicker or laugh,тАЭ she says.┬а
Paul says children go through a period of speech and language development in which they use word approximations, such as saying тАЬwawaтАЭ for water, as simplifications of adult words. They understand the rules linked with the sounds in the language theyтАЩre learning, even if they canтАЩt yet articulate sounds to say the exact word.
Twins may forge their own word approximations тАЬbecause theyтАЩre imitating each otherтАЩs idiosyncratic, or unique, way of simplifying a word,тАЭ Paul says.
Infants and toddlers copy what they see adults and other children do, including trying to imitate speech patterns. Because twins are together nearly all day, some might begin to mimic each other.
тАЬThese children arenтАЩt developing a new language. They are doing their best to communicate their wants, needs, and ideas,тАЭ says Jaime Van Echo, associate director of clinical issues in speech-language pathology at ASHA. As children enter the early stages of expressive language development, they often produce what experts call protowords.
тАЬThese protowords are made-up words, or word-like utterances, using sounds the child can produce but may or may not match the sounds produced in a target word,тАЭ she says. тАЬThese protowords have specific meaning and are used consistently to convey this meaning.тАЭ
Twins often use the same protowords because theyтАЩre copying each other. They might keep speaking them even after they master real words. So while it may seem like theyтАЩre talking their own language, тАЬthey may simply be holding on to protowords and prefer to use these with each other,тАЭ Van Echo says.
Twins get more sophisticated in their speech and language as they grow up. Sometimes, they тАЬmay choose to hold on to the way they said some of the words when they were younger when speaking to each other,тАЭ Paul says, тАЬknowing that there is a clearer way to say the word when speaking to others.тАЭ
TrippтАЩs twins are now in elementary school, and Ariston is grounded in normal speech. Aaliyah, whoтАЩs been diagnosed with a type of dyslexia, still likes to pretend sheтАЩs talking in a different language, knowing itтАЩs made up, Tripp says. She hopes that real-world languages might be a gift her daughter can pursue when sheтАЩs older.
Even though the Tripp twins have outgrown it, they still sometimes return to their twin speak, usually when theyтАЩre trying to be funny. Tripp and her husband have tried to harness the babyhood closeness. тАЬWe still want to hold on to that abilityтАЭ to communicate in their own way, she says. тАЬAs connected as they were as babies, theyтАЩre so very different. We want to hold on to some of that magic they have.тАЭ