For decades, we have been told that monogamy is the real way to be in a happy and fulfilling relationship. However, there has been no existing evidence to prove this claim, it has been blindly followed and preached about through cultural messages, religious practices and healthcare advice. Also read | Are you the chameleon in your relationship? Therapist shares 5 signs to look out for
However, according to a recent study led by Joel R. Anderson, La Trobe University, there is practically no difference between monogamous and consensual polygamous relationships, when it comes to happiness and sexual satisfaction.
Findings of the study:
The study published in The Journal of Sex Research, directly challenges this notion that relationships are happy and healthy only when monogamy is practiced. The study was conducted by collecting data from nearly 25,000 individuals. The study is a first-of-its-kind to understand satisfaction levels across different structures of relationships.
Monogamy is a moral choice:
For generations, monogamy has been practiced across cultures and countries and has been normalised to the extent that people practicing polygamy by choice are judged and discriminated against. The study observed that monogamy has been normalised because for a long time, it has been told to us through cultural and religious ways that it is the moral choice. It has been said to us that monogamy ensures better health outcomes, greater stability, and even better intimacy. However, the study directly challenges these claims. Also read | Soft vs hard launch on social media: When should you go public with your relationship?
The researchers analysed studies conducted between 2007 and 2024, mostly in Western countries like the United States, Canada, and Australia. The data was collected from people across sexual identities and relationship structures. However, the participants were predominantly white. Also read | Love isn’t just about butterflies: 10 signs that you’re not ready for a relationship, according to expert
According to the study, participants practicing monogamy, polygamy, open relationship, swinging or monogamish relationships reported identical levels of happiness and sexual satisfaction. The study authors further added that while consensual monogamous relationships are healthy, consensual polygamous relationships can enhance certain skills such as communication, openness, and understanding.
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